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The Best Way to Find Yourself When You’re Feeling Lost

There are moments in life when we all feel lost. We might not know what we want to do with our lives, or where we see ourselves in the future. These feelings of uncertainty can be really daunting, and make it hard to move forward. But don’t worry, there is a way to find yourself again even when you’re feeling lost. All you need is some inspiration and a lot of determination! Keep reading to find out how to get back on track!

So, you feel like you can’t truly find yourself?

Miss K felt the same way. She told us, “At the time I booked my session my self-esteem was nearing rock bottom. I felt stuck in a fairly constant state of anxiety and depression for several months. Life was in control of me, not the other way around. It went from social media to relationship struggles, to finances, to lack of growth. At some point, I realized that I wasn’t who I used to be and needed to find myself again. Maybe, I even need to find myself for the first time. Everything seemed to be starting to fall to pieces or maybe they already were.

While I had to do my best to put things back together, everything was definitely marked “fragile.” Not only that, but I constantly reflected on what might help me feel better/happier. I tried everything from changing my hair, taking a vacation, switching jobs, rebuilding my wardrobe – the whole nine yards. However, when I looked in the mirror, pretty and valuable were still not the words that came to mind.

I was quite simply lost.

I needed something to make me feel beautiful again, to change my outlook, and give me new life.

A Simply Lush experience was another one of the things that I decided I was going to try to find a glimmer of hope in feeling better about myself. Admittedly, my biggest fear going in was that I wouldn’t be able to pose or show emotion. Or, worse still, that the emotion that would show up in my images would be nervousness. I have no prior modeling experience and my selfies and candid photos almost never turn out 5-star. However, after my session, everything changed! I felt lighter. I saw a few of my photos and couldn’t believe that I looked the way I did!

Having photos taken helped me visualize and feel emotions that I wasn’t allowing myself to feel.

I don’t know how she does it, but Ashley showed me what I truly looked like and created a safe space to unveil part of the true me. I felt all the judgment fall away; Ashley made me feel confident in every decision that I made, she listened, she was able to capture the sexy that I felt had faded. So, what changed since then? Well, I can honestly say, I don’t put my body down like I used to. It also eliminated a huge weight that I carried with me for many years. Honestly, this is something I never knew I needed, and it probably is for you, too.”

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When we’re feeling lost in life, it can be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. But don’t worry! There is a way to find yourself again and regain your self-confidence when you feel like you have no idea what you want or where you are going. We know how difficult it might seem right now but just remember that with time and perseverance, things will get better. Click below for more information on finding oneself again after being lost in life 🙂