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Why It Took Me Almost 2 Years to Conquer a Sexy Photoshoot

Like most of us, Miss L felt like the girl who wanted to be sexy but never had the courage. When she finally decided to take on a sexy photoshoot it took her almost two years to get up enough nerve and find an open-minded boudoir photographer. It’s not that she didn’t want to do it; it just seemed like something only other people did. But when you’re looking for ways to feel empowered, there are few things more empowering than taking control of your own sexuality!


So here’s her story: how she found the courage (to start with), what happened during her shoot, and why you should think about doing this for yourself if you’ve ever wanted to try something sexy!

“I was interested in a sexy photoshoot for years.”

Miss L explained, “After talking to Amber for a couple of years about her boudoir experience, I was finally able to find the courage to do it myself.” The truth of the matter is that some things take time. Sometimes, like with Miss L, hearing our friend’s positive experiences can make all the difference. On average, the women we work with build up the nerve over the course of a few years. Why? Well, for a whole bunch of reasons. Some people don’t feel their body is worth photographing (hint: that’s never true). Some people feel guilty investing in themselves, and other people just procrastinate (don’t we all). However, the overwhelmingly popular response from all of these women after their experience is – “why did I wait so long to do this?!”

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So, what happened during Miss L’s experience?

She told us, “My favorite part was the whole thing! Truly, from my hair and makeup to Ashley making me feel totally comfortable in what I was afraid was going to be totally uncomfortable situation, I wouldn’t change a thing. It helped me see myself in a different light + feel in control of my own sexuality. Beforehand, I was definitely afraid I was going to hate my photos. It’s safe to say that didn’t happen. On the contrary, they are amazing and I was able to find the confidence I’d been searching for!”

Why should you take the plunge?

“Simply put,” Miss L said, “everyone should feel how amazing it was to have this experience.” So often we are locked into old outdated versions of ourselves with no space to explore the true depth of our being. Simply Lush offers a space to do just that! It is a real no-judgment zone where you are free to unleash the parts of you that have never seen the light of day before now. You’ll be surprised how transformative 5 hours can be when you’re in the right place.

When you’re looking for ways to feel empowered, there are few things more empowering than taking control of your own sexuality! Don’t let the idea that only other people are capable of this experience stop you from doing it. If you want to indulge in a sexy photoshoot but don’t know where to start, click below for more information on what we have to offer!